Dierdre WallaceTherapy · LMFT

Somatic therapy for women who know their patterns, yet still abandon themselves.

Online across California. I help self aware women break free from people pleasing, perfectionism, self doubt and old survival patterns by working with the body, not just the story.

Licensed therapist EMDR certified 10+ years in practice
Dierdre Wallace, LMFT
Where you might be

You are very good at being okay for everyone else.

From the outside it looks like you have it handled. Inside, there is a low hum of tension that never quite switches off, and a tiredness that sleep does not seem to touch.

If you recognize yourself here, know nothing in you is broken. Your body learned to stay safe this way. And now, it’s time for it to learn something gentler.

Why the body

Insight alone rarely settles a nervous system.

We let the body finish what it never got the chance to.

You can understand exactly why you feel the way you do and still feel it in your chest, your shoulders, your sleep. That’s because these patterns aren’t just thoughts. They’re survival responses, held both in the body and the nervous system.

Healing isn’t about forcing yourself to relive the past. It’s about helping your nervous system build enough safety and capacity to stay present with what once felt overwhelming.

  • Rather than only talking about what happened, we pay attention to what is happening now — the sensations, the bracing, the ways your nervous system is still trying to protect you.
  • Together we help your body complete the responses it once had to hold back, so it no longer stays stuck in survival mode.
  • Over time, your body learns that it is safe to settle.
How we work together

An integrative, body aware approach.

There isn’t one technique that creates healing. Lasting change happens when we work with the mind, body and nervous system together. That’s why I tailor each session using the approaches that best support your unique needs.

Primary

Somatic therapy

The foundation of the work. We track sensation and the nervous system so change happens at the level where the patterns actually live, not just where we can name them.

Parts work

Parts work

A gentle way of meeting the different parts of you, the one who pushes, the one who pleases, the one who protects, with curiosity instead of judgment.

EMDR

EMDR

An evidence based method for trauma that helps the brain reprocess painful memories so they lose their charge. I am certified in EMDR and bring it in where it fits.

What the work can move

What we tend to work on.

Anxiety and overwhelm

Turning down the constant alarm so your body can rest in the present.

Trauma and PTSD

Processing what stayed stuck, at a pace your system can actually hold.

People pleasing and boundaries

Learning that a no can be safe, and that your needs are allowed to take up space.

Coming home to yourself

Rebuilding self trust and the quiet sense of being at home in your own body.

What to expect

Getting started is simple.

A free 15 minute consultation

A short, no pressure phone call to see if we’re a good fit. Call (510) 216-1884 or use the form below.

Your first session

We slow down and get to know what you’re carrying — nothing rushed, you set the pace.

The ongoing work

Regular online sessions that build safety and capacity, until settling feels like home.

About Dierdre

Hi, I am Dierdre.

Dierdre Wallace, LMFT

I am a licensed marriage and family therapist working with women across California, entirely online. For more than a decade I have sat with people who look composed on the outside and feel anything but, and I have watched what becomes possible when we stop trying to think our way out and start listening to the body.

My work is trauma informed and rooted in somatic therapy, EMDR and parts work. It is warm, unhurried and built around you, never the other way round.

  • Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, California
  • CA License #121224
  • EMDR Certified
  • Master's in Counseling Psychology, JFK University
  • Online only  ·  she / her
Questions

Before you reach out.

What exactly is somatic therapy?

It is talk therapy that also includes the body. Alongside what we discuss, we pay attention to sensation and the nervous system, because so much of what keeps us stuck is held there rather than in our thoughts.

Is everything online?

Yes. I work with clients throughout California over secure video, so you can do this from wherever you feel most comfortable.

I have done talk therapy before and still feel stuck. How is this different?

Talking can give us understanding without giving the body relief. By working from the bottom up, somatic therapy reaches the patterns that insight alone tends to leave in place.

Do you take insurance, and how much are sessions?

Sessions are $200 and I am an out of network provider. I can give you a superbill to submit to your insurance for possible reimbursement.

Who do you work with?

Mostly self aware women navigating anxiety, trauma, people pleasing, boundaries and the wish to feel more at home in themselves.

What happens on the free consultation?

A short, relaxed conversation. You can share a little of what brings you here, ask me anything, and notice whether it feels like a fit. There is no obligation to continue.

Start with a free 15 minute consultation.

  • A free, 15 minute phone conversation
  • Online across California
  • No pressure and no commitment

Prefer to talk now? Call (510) 216-1884

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